How to stop being sad and be awesome instead?
Classic Barney Stinson! I love that guy.
I don’t know, Barney was supposed to be a disgusting character but I always find him funny which is why he was my best character in the whole HIMYM series.
He had a deep story but what I learnt from him was that he was never upset. Or at least he never whines about his problems.
Sometimes, it is necessary to let go of our feelings and sorrows. Which is a must (I’m not saying we shouldn’t), but not in front of everyone.
Sharing our sorrows can make us feel good but sharing Joys can double our joys.
Making someone feel good can bring joy in our lives as well. Spreading laughter and love can decrease all the negativity in this world.
We can share our problems with our friends or family members.
Having a little ‘Me’ time is a must for me (‘coz I’m EXTREMELY emotional and if I don’t share it with someone, it can be pretty hard for me.
I’m not gonna change my nature but I can stop myself from crying in front of EVERYONE.
“If you want to lift yourself up,
Lift up someone else.”
-Booker T. Washington
Everybody is facing a hard battle, none of us is perfect.
There are people around us who have problems that are much bigger than ours and I think we should solve others problems instead of crying about our own.
There are very few people who can motivate others. Who can boost morale. We should try our best to be one of those. Coz’ those people are awesome!
Learning how to see ‘a glass half full’ is not easy. It’s not for everyone I get it. But we can always try to JUST improve ourselves.
Being depressed ALL THE TIME can demoralize our own self and other people around us.
Surround yourself with Positive Energy.
Good Vibes translates into good moods and better health all around.
I recently read an article “Surround Yourself with Positive People” which was based on how her Career life was affected by meeting two totally different minded fellows.
She introduced a guy who has recently lost fifty pounds and was now very successful in his personal and professional life. Harrison was so intrigued by this person’s happiness and successful lifestyle that she decided to share his secrets to everyone.
On the other hand, a guy, who was a colleague in her office, this person could ONLY talk about his problems. The writer was depressed when she was around this person. He could only make her feel bad about her job as well (which she was really enjoying).
People LOVE to be around with Positive Energy as it can motivate them as well. Nobody wants to be with a person who spreads negative Vibes.
Be the one who can make other people rise not down.
“A sad soul can kill you far quicker than a germ”
– John Steinback
Be more optimistic and you won’t be sad anymore. Changing your negative attitude to a positive one affected my lifestyle, especially professional. I used to be depressed on EVERY failure I fail. Now, I try even harder and I definitely feel successful.
Every time I’m upset or depressed over something I tell myself to be like Barney.
Be Awesome and Suit Up! 😉 😛
(I want to but I don’t have a suit 🙁 )
This post is the third on my Series of Improving little things about ourselves. Read other posts on this series:
Aimz dreams to travel every inch of the globe and works hard to achieve it.